<p class=MsoNormal align=center style='text-align:center'><b><span style='font-family:"Arial","sans-serif";color:black'>Playing with FOCUS</span></b></p>
<p class=MsoNormal align=center style='text-align:center'><b><span style='font-family:"Arial","sans-serif";color:black'>Playing Through the Pain Pt 1</span></b></p>
<p class=MsoNormal><b><span style='font-family:"Arial","sans-serif";color:black'>Disciples have great Confusion brought on by </span></b></p>
<p class=MsoNormal><b><span style='font-family:"Arial","sans-serif";color:black'>1) the strong opposition Jesus is drawing, and ….</span></b></p>
<p class=MsoNormal><b><span style='font-family:"Arial","sans-serif";color:black'>2) Jesus’ own statement that they would betray and desert Jesus. </span></b></p>
<p class=MsoNormal><b><span style='font-family:"Arial","sans-serif";color:black'>A major reason Christ-followers are such underachievers is that we don’t trust…. <em><u><span style='font-family:"Arial","sans-serif";font-style:normal'>Others and how they may see us</span></u></em></span></b><span style='font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";color:black'>. </span></p>
<p class=MsoNormal><b><span style='font-family:"Arial","sans-serif";color:black'>Vulnerability-Based Trust: Ability to admit weaknesses & mistakes, to apologize and to make amends.</span></b></p>
<p class=MsoNormal><strong><span style='font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"; color:black'><a href="http://www.crossbooks.com/verse.asp?ref=Jn+12%3A37"><span style='color:black'>John 12:37</span></a> (NLT)</span></strong><sup><span style='font-family:"Arial","sans-serif";color:black'> </span></sup><span style='font-family:"Arial","sans-serif";color:black'>But despite all the miraculous signs Jesus had done, most of the people still did not believe in him. </span></p>
<p class=MsoNormal style='margin-bottom:12.0pt'><strong><span style='font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";color:black'><a href="http://www.crossbooks.com/verse.asp?ref=Jn+12%3A42-43"><span style='color:black'>John 12:42-43</span></a> (NLT) </span></strong><sup><span style='font-family:"Arial","sans-serif";color:black'>42 </span></sup><span style='font-family:"Arial","sans-serif";color:black'>Many people did believe in him, however, including some of the Jewish leaders. But they wouldn’t admit it for fear that the Pharisees would expel them from the synagogue. <sup>43 </sup>For they loved human praise more than the praise of God. </span></p>
<p class=MsoNormal><b><span style='font-family:"Arial","sans-serif";color:black'>Questions to get at our uncertainty, hurts and fears of other’s perceptions:</span></b></p>
<p class=MsoNormal style='margin-left:.25in;text-indent:-.2in'><b><span style='font-family:"Arial","sans-serif";color:black'>-</span></b><b><span style='font-size:7.0pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif";color:black'> </span></b><b><span style='font-family:"Arial","sans-serif";color:black'>Is there a person for whom my first thought about them is what they did to me?</span></b></p>
<p class=MsoNormal style='margin-left:.25in;text-indent:-.2in'><b><span style='font-family:"Arial","sans-serif";color:black'>-</span></b><b><span style='font-size:7.0pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif";color:black'> </span></b><b><span style='font-family:"Arial","sans-serif";color:black'>Is there a ‘common’ excuse I use to keep from doing multiple things that I could do?</span></b></p>
<p class=MsoNormal style='margin-left:.25in;text-indent:-.2in'><b><span style='font-family:"Arial","sans-serif";color:black'>-</span></b><b><span style='font-size:7.0pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif";color:black'> </span></b><b><span style='font-family:"Arial","sans-serif";color:black'>Is there a certain person, or group of people, that come to my mind when I am trying to decide whether or note to do something?</span></b></p>
<p class=MsoNormal><strong><span style='font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"; color:black'>1) Start with </span></strong><em><b><u><span style='font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";color:black;font-style:normal'>the end in mind</span></u></b></em><strong><span style='font-family:"Arial","sans-serif";color:black'>.</span></strong></p>
<p><strong><span style='font-family:"Arial","sans-serif";color:black'><a href="http://www.crossbooks.com/verse.asp?ref=Jn+14%3A1-2"><span style='color:black'>John 14:1-2</span></a> (NLT) </span></strong><sup><span style='font-family:"Arial","sans-serif";color:black'>1 </span></sup><span style='font-family:"Arial","sans-serif";color:black'>“Don’t let your hearts be troubled. Trust in God, and trust also in me. <sup>2 </sup>There is more than enough room in my Father’s home. If this were not so, would I have told you that I am going to prepare a place for you? <br> <br> <strong><span style='font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"'>2) Trust that it's not all 'on me' but is </span></strong><em><b><u><span style='font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"; font-style:normal'>'on God'</span></u></b></em><strong><span style='font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"'>.</span></strong></span></p>
<p><strong><span style='font-family:"Arial","sans-serif";color:black'><a href="http://www.crossbooks.com/verse.asp?ref=Jn+14%3A3"><span style='color:black'>John 14:3</span></a> (NLT) </span></strong><sup><span style='font-family:"Arial","sans-serif";color:black'>3 </span></sup><span style='font-family:"Arial","sans-serif";color:black'>When everything is ready, I will come and get you, so that you will always be with me where I am. </span></p>
<p><span style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif";color:black'><br> </span><strong><span style='font-family:"Arial","sans-serif";color:black'>3) Remember the</span></strong><span style='font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"; color:black'> <strong><u><span style='font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"'>'little things'</span></u></strong> <strong><span style='font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"'>I've learned along the way.</span></strong></span></p>
<p><strong><span style='font-family:"Arial","sans-serif";color:black'><a href="http://www.crossbooks.com/verse.asp?ref=Jn+14%3A4-5"><span style='color:black'>John 14:4-5</span></a> (NLT) </span></strong><sup><span style='font-family:"Arial","sans-serif";color:black'>4 </span></sup><span style='font-family:"Arial","sans-serif";color:black'>And you know the way to where I am going.” <sup>5 </sup>“No, we don’t know, Lord,” Thomas said. “We have no idea where you are going, so how can we know the way?” <br> <br> <br> </span></p>
<p><strong><span style='font-family:"Arial","sans-serif";color:black'>4) Adopt a </span></strong><em><b><u><span style='font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"; color:black;font-style:normal'>'Please Jesus Only'</span></u></b></em><strong><span style='font-family:"Arial","sans-serif";color:black'> mindset.</span></strong></p>
<p><strong><span style='font-family:"Arial","sans-serif";color:black'><a href="http://www.crossbooks.com/verse.asp?ref=Jn+14%3A6"><span style='color:black'>John 14:6</span></a> (NLT) </span></strong><sup><span style='font-family:"Arial","sans-serif";color:black'>6 </span></sup><span style='font-family:"Arial","sans-serif";color:black'>Jesus told him, “I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one can come to the Father except through me. </span></p>
<p><strong><span style='font-family:"Arial","sans-serif";color:black'>5) Work to continuously widen your </span></strong><em><b><u><span style='font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";color:black;font-style:normal'>peripheral vision</span></u></b></em><strong><span style='font-family:"Arial","sans-serif";color:black'>.</span></strong></p>
<p><strong><span style='font-family:"Arial","sans-serif";color:black'><a href="http://www.crossbooks.com/verse.asp?ref=Jn+14%3A8-9"><span style='color:black'>John 14:8-9</span></a> (NLT) </span></strong><sup><span style='font-family:"Arial","sans-serif";color:black'>8 </span></sup><span style='font-family:"Arial","sans-serif";color:black'>Philip said, “Lord, show us the Father, and we will be satisfied.” <sup>9 </sup>Jesus replied, “Have I been with you all this time, Philip, and yet you still don’t know who I am? Anyone who has seen me has seen the Father! So why are you asking me to show him to you? </span></p>
<p><span style='font-family:"Arial","sans-serif";color:black'><br> <a href="http://www.crossbooks.com/verse.asp?ref=Jn+14%3A11"><strong><span style='font-family:"Arial","sans-serif";color:black'>John 14:11</span></strong></a><strong><span style='font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"'> (NLT) </span></strong><sup>11 </sup>Just believe that I am in the Father and the Father is in me. Or at least believe because of the work you have seen me do. <br> <br> <strong><span style='font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"'>6) Work hard to produce </span></strong><em><b><u><span style='font-family:"Arial","sans-serif";font-style:normal'>positive results</span></u></b></em><strong><span style='font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"'>.</span></strong></span></p>
<p style='margin-bottom:12.0pt'><strong><span style='font-size:10.0pt; font-family:"Arial","sans-serif";color:black'><a href="http://www.crossbooks.com/verse.asp?ref=Jn+14%3A12-14"><em><span style='font-size:12.0pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif";color:black; font-style:normal'>John 14:12-14</span></em></a></span></strong><em><b><span style='font-family:"Arial","sans-serif";color:black;font-style:normal'> (NLT) </span></b></em><em><sup><span style='font-family:"Arial","sans-serif";color:black;font-style:normal'>12 </span></sup></em><em><span style='font-family:"Arial","sans-serif";color:black;font-style:normal'>“I tell you the truth, anyone who believes in me will do the same works I have done, and even greater works, because I am going to be with the Father. <sup>13 </sup>You can ask for anything in my name, and I will do it, so that the Son can bring glory to the Father. <sup>14 </sup>Yes, ask me for anything in my name, and I will do it! </span></em></p>